To My Handsome Prince Charming:

Aloha, Lovelies. Since last time was a letter to the Princess, I'd like to follow it up with a letter to my Prince. It's a little different in tone, as I have a whole different message for him.

Dear Little Prince Charming,

I never knew how my life could change for the better until you came into my world. I've not had much experience with little boys, so my son, you are my learning curve. In more ways than one.  This could be both a blessing and a curse for you, so how you choose to look at it is entirely up to you.

There are a lot of things that I wish I could articulate. I wish I could articulate the fact that even if sometimes it seems I am dealing with the Princess and may not have time for you, I will always have time for you. Tell me you need it, I will make it available. I wish I could articulate how I much I've wondered if this life that you were born into; that of chaos and meltdowns, was ever fair to you. Along with that chaos is love and memories that we will share together as a family. So, I suppose that's fair enough.

I'm not sure I'll ever be able to articulate to you how much different the world is for your sister, the Princess. I think you notice. I know you love her. I know you see the differences. You enjoy being in the high chair and trying new things, even if you see her having a meltdown in same situation. You're trying to learn new words, while she seems to be stuck on babbling.

You sir, are an inspiration to me. While you see the chaos, you see the beauty. When you fall down, you get right back up. The most inspiring is seeing how you and your big sister have formed a bond. I almost think you may understand a little better than I do. When you get that talking full sentences thing down, will you do me a solid and explain some to me?

Let me leave you with a few pieces of advice:

• Never lose that sense of adventure. Someday, it will lead you to what makes you happiest.

• Look to your father as an example of how a man should behave. Especially in how he treats the people around him. However, ignore the negative habits. Like leaving shoes in the middle of the floor, or considering laundry "done" when it's simply piled fresh out of the dryer.-- Trust me, your wife some day will thank me for that tidbit.

• Ask questions. Seek answers. Never be afraid to ask advice or for help. This is something most adults have trouble with-- Including yours truly-- so figuring this out now will help you in the future. 

Know that I will always love you. You will always be my baby boy, even long after you have grown taller than I am. I am here for you. You'll make mistakes, and so will I, we'll work through it together.
I love you always, my handsome Prince.

Love,

Mommy